10 very simple ways to impress women
Impressing a woman needn’t be so hard. Here are some 10 very simple ways you can achieve just that according to AskMen.com.
1) Compliment Her Positivity
Telling
a woman she gives off a “happy” vibe will make her feel good. That’s
the vibe most people want to give off all the time. It also allows you
to then ask her about the things in her life that make her so happy,
which will make her feel even better, positive feelings that she’ll
ultimately associate with talking to you. This kind of a comment
centering on positivity is another one of our top 10 simple ways to
impress women.
2) Ask For Advice
Whether
you’re apartment-hunting or trying to set your buddy up on a blind
date, women are impressed when you ask them for advice. It shows her
that you value other people’s opinions — in particular, her opinion. Be
careful not to come off as clueless here, though; you don’t want to act
like you know nothing. You also don’t want to put her on the spot or
make her feel uncomfortable. When asking for advice, get her perspective
on a limited set of options. For example, does she think you should
move into a townhouse or a loft? This kind of question allows her to
easily express an opinion, and hopefully sparks a more extensive
conversation.
3) Compliment Her Looks
So
here’s the thing: you want to give her a compliment, but you want it to
seem sincere. Thus, you need something a little more original than,
“You have incredible eyes.” Give this a shot: Compliment the way she
looks in her outfit. Say something like, “You look great in that dress.”
It’s a great way of telling her she looks hot without rerunning the
same old compliment and it also communicates that you’re attracted to
her in a way that, “Cool jacket!” does not.
4) Open Doors
Another
entry on our list of the top 10 simple ways to impress women: Open the
door for her. Opening the door for a woman is a classic gentlemanly
gesture. The otherwise admirable push for gender equality has largely
eliminated acts of chivalry like this one. Do your part to bring
chivalry back by opening the door for her.
5) Ask Questions
When
you’re getting to know a woman you should do your best to make her
comfortable. That means steering a conversation toward a subject she’s
comfortable talking about — like her. Just about every woman likes to
talk about herself. It’s a subject on which she has a lot of expertise,
after all. Asking her questions about her past and her favorite things
will allow her to open up and feel comfortable, while simultaneously
showing her that you’re interested in more than just her looks.
6) Ignore Your Phone
Nothing
says, “You’re not that important….” like taking a call from someone
else or checking a text in the middle of a conversation. That’s why
ignoring your phone is one of our top 10 simple ways to impress women.
The culture of texting has gotten way out of hand. Too many men think
it’s perfectly acceptable to take a phone call or fire off an e-mail
while you’re on a date or in the middle of a conversation. Well, we have
news for you: It’s uncivil. When you’re talking to a woman, let her see
you silence your phone or turn it off completely — show her she has
your undivided attention.
7) Socialize With Her Friends
When
deciding whether or not to ask a woman out on a date, you probably
evaluate her personality and her looks, among other things like her
sense of humor and her intelligence. Well, women do those things too,
but they also think about our potential as partners. And one of the
things that speaks to our potential is our ability to fit into her
social network. Women are attracted to likable, social, charming men,
the kind of guys their friends and families will love. So, engage in
conversation with her friends even as you’re working your magic on her.
Impress them and you’ll impress her. Just make sure it’s clear that
she’s the one you’re interested in.
8) Help With Her Coat
If
you’re trying to come up with simple ways to impress women, you might
think about the kinds of things your grandfather used to do. Women love
old-school displays of chivalry. Helping her put on her coat is a great
example. It’s a kind, courteous act that’s not so common anymore. That’s
why it will help you stand out. It’s also a good way to increase her
comfort level with you as it allows you to get close to her without
getting too close.
9) Be Well Groomed
Scraggly
facial hair styles and even a hint of body odor will kill your chances
with women. Women want their men to be well groomed. They want them to
look and smell good all the time. That doesn’t mean you necessarily have
to be clean-shaven, but any facial hair you do have should be well
maintained. Think about it: You judge them based on the way they look.
Why wouldn’t they do the same with you?
10) Look Her In The Eye
It
can be tempting to look a beautiful woman up and down, and the more
beautiful she is, the harder it is to concentrate on the conversation.
Just remember, if she catches you staring at her chest when she’s
telling you how much her mom means to her, you’ll look like a creep.
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